Reciprocity: Do I show appreciation? Do I nurture this relationship?
Reliability: Can my partner count on me? Do I do what I say I will do?
Respect: Do I treat my partner with the respect they deserve?
Passion: Do I do my part in keeping sexual or shared passions going?
Intimacy: Can I vulnerable and express emotion? Am I a good listener?
Commitment: Do I want a future in this relationship?