Skip to content
Simplifying Relationships Simplifying Relationships

A concise guide to dealing with other people, living your best life and connecting in disonnected times.

  • BOOK
  • About
  • Blog
  • Contents
  • Testimonials
  • Groups
Simplifying Relationships
Simplifying Relationships

A concise guide to dealing with other people, living your best life and connecting in disonnected times.

Depression

jodyandrews, January 25, 2025January 25, 2025

There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper
and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.
― Laurell K. Hamilton

My views on depression and the use of anti-depressants may
be controversial. One way I view depression is as “a cocoon of
change”, also known as grief – normal and necessary for transition
and loss. Another view is depression as “anger turned inward”.
This is the passive individual coping with cumulative pain
and hurt from toxic relationship(s). A third view is depression as
an “outcome of loneliness and isolation”. This is exacerbated
by social media and our post pandemic preference for remote
work. In my experience, these can be worked through by talk
therapy and/or life changes, without medication. A fourth view of
depression is “organic and biochemical”. This is that dark intractable
clinical depression which is best managed by medication,
therapy, group support and life changes. Before committing to
pharmaceuticals, give serious thought to which kind of depression
you may be struggling with.

Simplifying Relationships with Other People

Post navigation

Previous post
Next post

Related Posts

Intermittent Reinforcement

August 2, 2024August 2, 2024
Read More

Respect in Families

July 6, 2024July 7, 2024

Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place we find the deepest heartache.  –Iyanla Vansant Respect means non-violation and families can be the place we feel most violated. This can run the gamut from inattentive, distant or neglectful to being verbally, physically and/or sexually abusive. This can…

Read More

Three More Essentials for Romantic Relationships

July 15, 2024July 15, 2024

Intimacy Passion Commitment In order for a relationship to flourish, three more essentials must be added to the mix:  passion, intimacy and commitment. As a couple’s therapist I begin a session with “What is working”? Their spontaneous answers reveal a great deal. I listen and watch for the first three, reciprocity, reliability…

Read More
©2025 Simplifying Relationships | WordPress Theme by SuperbThemes
Product successfully added to the cart!