Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.
–Confucius
Living in a world that includes other people is challenging. Because we are all complex human beings, it is impossible to define a set protocol, formula or blueprint to work from. For most relationships, you can utilize these three essential elements: reciprocity of effort, reliability of commitment and respect for values as a baseline for determining success. These are the basic behaviors – essentially just plain good manners, for any relationship to feel healthy, meaningful and emotionally fulfilling. While it will not solve every dilemma in dealing with others, it is a good place to start.